“Trust is perhaps the most important factor of any business relationship, and it needs to be built from the first moment you meet someone.“
You’ve probably heard the saying “it’s not what you know, it’s who you know.”
But sometimes it is “what you know.” When it comes to business networking, knowing how to communicate effectively is just as important as who you communicate with.
What sets successful networkers apart is their ability to engage, listen, and respond in a way that builds genuine connections – and opens doors to real opportunities.
We’ve been teaching these core communication skills for over two decades at Body Talk, and in this blog, we’ll take you through how you can apply them to make the most out of networking opportunities.

What is business networking?
Business networking is how you make the relationships you need to move your business or career forward. Networking often happens at organised events, but it can also look like one-on-one meetings or even interacting through sites like LinkedIn.
What makes networking effective?
A lot of people see networking as an opportunity to pitch their business and focus solely on the goal of getting new clients or leads. But networking depends on the relationship as its foundation. And one of the most important aspects of any relationship is communication.
This means more than just exchanging business cards or small talk – it means getting to know the other person and understanding their needs.
Tips for successful business networking
So, how can you put that into practice? Let’s go through six core techniques you can use at your next networking event.
If you’re looking for even more strategies to enhance your networking game, we’ve compiled 15 essential business networking tips in another blog.
1. Build trust
Trust is one of the most important elements in networking. Whether you meet someone at an event, through an introduction, or in a short online conversation, people quickly decide whether they feel comfortable staying in contact with you. That judgement is often shaped by four areas: credibility, dependability, vulnerability and motives.
Credibility is about more than knowledge or expertise. In a networking context, it is also about congruence. Do your words match your tone and body language? Are you present in the conversation or distracted by the next person you want to speak to? When people sense that you are genuine, attentive and consistent in how you show up, your credibility grows quickly.
Dependability is about small actions that show people they can rely on you. If you say you will send an article, introduce someone, or pass on a recommendation, do you actually follow through? Even something as simple as responding to a message or reconnecting after an event can strengthen trust. In networking, these small moments of reliability matter far more than grand gestures.
Vulnerability helps create a real connection. This might be as simple as being open about what you are exploring, what you are learning, or where you would value input from others. When you allow a conversation to be human rather than transactional, people tend to relax and engage more honestly.
Motives are often the most visible signal in networking. People can usually tell when someone is only interested in what they can get from the interaction. If your focus is simply on gaining a connection, a referral or a quick opportunity, trust is harder to build. When your intention is to understand the other person, learn about their work and look for ways to add value, the relationship tends to develop much more naturally.
When these four areas are present, networking stops feeling transactional and starts becoming relational. Conversations feel more genuine, connections are more likely to last, and trust builds over time.
2. Listen more than you talk
Many business professionals make the mistake of doing most of the talking when they’re networking. They see it as a chance to pitch their business and try to sell the other person what they have to offer.
But if you want to build strong relationships, you must focus on the other person more than yourself. You need to listen to what they’re saying and get to know them as a person. Only then will you be able to understand their needs and how you can help them.
Also, listen with the intent to understand rather than listen with the intent to reply. Too many conversations fall flat because people jump in with what they want to say rather than responding to what the other person has said. It’s the quickest way to lose trust because people will feel you only care about yourself. As with the trust equation above, it’s high self-orientation with low intimacy.
So, make sure you’re truly listening to what the other person is saying – not just waiting for your turn to talk!
3. Ask questions
Listening well leads directly to asking good questions, and the combination is a great way to show you’re interested in the other person. Asking questions also allows you to learn more about them and their needs.
However, not all questions are created equal. Avoid closed questions that can be answered with a simple ‘yes’ or ‘no’; otherwise, a conversation quickly feels like an interrogation. Instead, focus on open-ended questions encouraging the other person to share more information. For example:
- How did you get interested in this industry?
- What challenges are you facing in your business right now?
- What has been your most successful networking experience?
These sorts of questions will help you get to know the other person better, understand their challenges and discover how you can help them. They’ll appreciate that you’re interested in them as a person, not just a potential client or lead.
4. Mind your body language
Your body language communicates a lot about how you’re feeling, which can significantly affect how the other person perceives you. One of the key things with body language is to make sure you’re being congruent, which means your words, tone of voice and body language all match up.
For example, if you say you’re interested in what the other person is saying, but your body language says otherwise (e.g., looking at your phone or glancing at someone else you want to speak to), they won’t believe you. On the other hand, if your body language is open and inviting (e.g. making eye contact, leaning forward), it will help build rapport and trust.

5. Be genuine and authentic
Does networking make you feel inauthentic? You’re not the only one – a lot of people say that they feel fake whilst networking, because they’re talking with the intent to gain something, and not because they’re genuinely interested in the other person.
But networking doesn’t have to be something that feels forced. In an interview with Knowledge at Wharton, psychologist and author Adam Grant talks about the concept of givers, takers and matchers.
- A giver puts other people first
- A taker puts themselves first
- A matcher looks for a balance between the two
Interestingly, Grant found that both the most successful and the least successful people tend to be givers. While givers can risk burnout, they also build trust and goodwill by focusing on others’ interests.
So how can you apply the giver mindset to your own networking, without getting burnt out?
Grant suggests setting boundaries that allow you to give without feeling drained. One way to do this is to make a habit of the five-minute favour. Find something small but impactful that you can offer in under five minutes. It might be sharing an article, offering a quick introduction, or providing a helpful piece of advice, for example.
6. Manage your own expectations and follow-up
Remember that it takes time to build relationships. As hard as it is – we all want to see results from the work we put in – it’s important to be patient, and not expect too much too soon.
That being said, there’s more you can do to keep building on the relationship once you’ve made some connections. Follow up on LinkedIn or send them an email, and reference what you were talking about. By doing this, you make it easy for them to get in touch with you again.
Want to take your follow-up skills to the next level? Head to our blog on how to follow up after networking for simple strategies that will make your connections feel more personal and impactful.
Examples of business networking
Business networking can take many forms. It can be as simple as conversing with someone at a networking event or going for coffee with a potential client. It can also be more formal, such as presenting at a conference or attending a business mixer.
The global pandemic greatly impacted how we network: and, for a time, it didn’t happen. Platforms like Zoom and Microsoft Teams soon became the gateway to keep the networking going, and virtual catch-ups remain part of the networking strategy, although many are probably relieved to escape from the kitchen table for a face-to-face coffee.
Here are some examples of business networking:
- Attending industry events and trade shows
- Hosting or attending webinars
- Giving presentations or workshops
- Networking at business mixers and social gatherings
- Building relationships on social media sites like LinkedIn, Twitter and Instagram
- Asking someone to be a guest on your podcast
- Becoming a guest blogger

The benefits of networking in business
Here are some of the benefits networking can bring to your business or career:
- Access to New Opportunities
Effective business networking opens doors to new business ventures, partnerships, and even job opportunities. By building a strong network, you’re increasing your chances of hearing about opportunities before they’re widely available. Whether it’s a new project, a client referral, or even a new job, networking helps you stay ahead of the curve. - Learning and Professional Growth
One of the most powerful benefits of networking is the exchange of ideas and knowledge. By connecting with people in different industries, you gain fresh perspectives that can help you solve problems, improve processes, or find innovative solutions. Networking allows you to learn from the experiences of others, which helps you grow professionally and expand your expertise. - Increased Visibility and Influence
The more people you know, the more likely your name will come up when opportunities arise. Regular networking helps you stay top-of-mind, which can translate into more visibility for your business or personal brand. Being known as a reliable, knowledgeable, and approachable professional boosts your reputation and influence within your industry. - Support and Advice
Networking provides a community of professionals who can offer advice, support, and guidance. Whether you’re facing a tough decision, looking to break into a new market, or need help with a specific business challenge, your network can be an invaluable resource for insight and support. - Increased Confidence
For many professionals, networking can feel intimidating. But over time, the more you network, the more comfortable and confident you become. As you develop relationships and gain a better understanding of how to engage with others, your communication skills improve, and your confidence in professional settings grows.
Make the most out of every opportunity with business networking training
Maybe you’ve seen the people at events who seem to be able to strike up a conversation with anyone. They don’t falter or hesitate, their voice is confident, and you believe in them purely based on the way they’re communicating.
You might think that networking just comes naturally to them. But from our experience training thousands of professionals at Body Talk, it’s not about natural ability. It’s about knowing what makes communication work.
When you partner with Body Talk, you’ll learn science-backed techniques you can use straight away to come across like a natural.
Whatever’s holding you back – self-doubt, anxiety, feeling awkward – we’ll give you the tools to overcome it.
Find out what you’ll gain with our business networking training.

Frequently asked questions
These are the questions people often ask about business networking – and our best advice.
What are the best networking strategies in business?
The best networking strategies are centred on building genuine relationships rather than just expanding your contact list. Focus on:
- Preparing for meaningful interactions: While having an elevator pitch is helpful, it shouldn’t be the focus. Instead, aim to show genuine interest in others. Engage in active listening, ask thoughtful questions, and focus on how you can add value – whether through sharing knowledge or offering useful connections. Networking is about building a relationship and finding common ground, not making a sale.
- Knowing your networking goal: Network in the way that works for what you want to achieve. If you want to establish authority, consider becoming a guest blogger, giving presentations, or hosting workshops. If you’re looking to build connections for new partnerships or clients, attending industry events or business mixers is a great way to go.
- Staying connected: Building a strong network takes ongoing effort. Platforms like LinkedIn allow you to easily keep in touch by liking posts, congratulating milestones, or just checking in. You can also schedule one-to-one meetups, either virtually or in person, to keep the relationship fresh. These touchpoints allow you to catch up, share updates, and offer support where needed. Small, consistent interactions help you maintain relationships with other business people and ensure that you stay top of mind within your local business community and beyond.
How do you find business networking events to attend?
To find business networking events to attend, start by exploring business networking groups in your area or online. Websites like LinkedIn and Eventbrite often list local and industry-specific networking options. You can also ask other business owners or colleagues about upcoming networking activities they’ve found valuable.
Don’t forget to check out local chambers of commerce or industry associations for regular events. By staying connected to these resources, you’ll discover more opportunities to expand your network.
Why is networking important?
Networking is important because it gives you the opportunity to:
- Make meaningful connections that lead to potential business opportunities and long-term growth.
- Meet people in your industry and stay on top of trends.
- Build new contacts who can offer valuable introductions or referrals to help you expand your network.
- Discover job openings and new opportunities like partnerships that could take your business to the next level.
- Learn from like-minded professionals who can help you improve your processes and achieve greater success.
Who benefits from networking communication skills?
Networking is a great way to build your professional network and meet new people, and the ability to do so effectively is a valuable skill for anyone in business. Whether you’re a salesperson, entrepreneur, or team player, networking can help you meet new people, build relationships, and create opportunities.
















